Friday, August 14, 2015

WHY A JEALOUSY OUTBREAK STILL HAPPENS EVEN THOUGH YOU WORKED ON YOUR JEALOUSY ISSUES FOR A WEEK - ARTICLE

Oh that's the simplest question!

It takes 1 to 3 months of training to tame most of your jealousy, learn and practice new behaviors.

Some changes happen instantly and some others take more time.

If you are consistent, you might get rid of 80% of your jealousy within 30 days but it doesn't necessarily mean that your jealousy fully goes away, you simply learn ways of mastering it.

Makes sense,  right?

Outbreaks might still happen.

Remember the idea I gave you about gym training, 3 months to get back in shape.

The same kind of idea applies to personal power and harmonious communication skills.

3 months of training :)

You only did one week.

You are on the right track but you must keep going forward, stay focused and go deeper and deeper.

I am sure you get it.

Good luck!

Thanks again for your trust!

BLAMING THE MAN FOR GETTING JEALOUS? WHAT ABOUT HER FLIRTING WITH OTHER MEN? IS THAT OK? - ARTICLE

I got this good question from a client:

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"I just have one question...

Why do you blame the man for having this emotional response and jealousy towards a woman?

Often I feel that there is great part that needs to be done by the woman as she also needs to very carefully watch her actions and behaviour while in relationship with a man.

For instance why would a woman that is in love with a man and engaged to him look for another man to be involved with even in a friendship and make her man jealous?

Why isn't she as well honest and caring about her man's feeling and try to avoid unnecessary attitudes that make her man jealous?

Why would a woman who is already engaged put heavy make up and go to the gym alone to exercise with other men, make her partner feel jealous instead of inviting him to go with her?

I think to be fair is to advise both the man and the woman to watch their actions and not only to advise men to change their response to the women.

Thanks..."

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Good one!

When dealing with jealousy, you have two ways to go:

  • The first one is to change your behavior, response, etc.
  • The second one is to educate your partner. 
You can coach them, inspire them or share with them.

You can use mirror tactics to get them to realize how it feels to be in your shoes.

Yes, you are right.

I could expand the jealousy program even more and give you extra tactics to coach your partner.

I could as well design a program specifically for women who make their partner jealous and teach them how to stop or modify their behavior.

If you check through the articles, audios and videos, you will see that some of the content is geared towards that target of educating your partner.

But You are right, I could expand on that and give you more tools

I will keep that in mind for future jealousy program updates.

Thanks for sharing.

15 TACTICS TO MASTER JEALOUSY TRIGGERS - TIP

  • Call your coach instead of talking to your partner
  • Avoid trigger situations
  • Create new mind sets
  • Get rid of the energy overload
  • Don't bring it up with friends
  • Change your speech
  • Use hypnotic audios
  • Develop emotional independence by expanding your social circle
  • Practice emotionally mature reactions
  • Build up personal power
  • Destroy your insecurities
  • Pause, watch, observe, strategize
  • Master your jealousy weapons
  • Stalk yourself for delusional jealousy
  • Analyze the trigger dynamics
  • Practice new behaviors and new emotional responses

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

This book helped me to an extent I can't even express. I was spinning out of control with jealously issues


"This book helped me to an extent I can't even express. I was spinning out of control with jealously issues. Some founded, most not. Reading this gave me the tools I needed to stop and control my jealous thoughts and behaviors. It helped me save my relationship. It's not 100% fixed but it is sure of a heck better than what it was. I plan on reading it for a second time because the information in it is just so dead on. I have been suggesting this to others. I am an older man dating a very hot, intelligent woman and I was struggling with stupid STUPID jealously. THANK YOU!!!!!!"

http://vitalcoaching.com/jealousyformen.htm

http://vitalcoaching.com/jealousyforwomen.htm

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

She says I am too clingy! - What does that mean?

Give her space! - Don't be needy!

Dealing with jealousy - Revealing facts!

Coping with jealousy - Jealous or possessive guys, listen to this!

Overcome jealousy! - Train a new behavior!

How to stop being jealous - Be wiser!

How to get rid of jealousy without losing your power

Why unjustified jealousy is emotional abuse

How to shift an unwanted jealousy response

Why you express your jealousy - Causes of jealousy

Guys and jealousy - How to stop being possessive

Overcome jealousy - How to not be jealous

What is jealousy? - Stop controlling her!