Thursday, January 28, 2010

We just had a very constructive chat 2 days ago - Something new bothers me - Should I bring it up? - TIP

If you already had a constructive discussion just a couple days ago, wait al least one to two weeks before you have another boundaries discussion.

Your couple can digest some "processing" but if you do it too frequently you don't give each other enough time and space to integrate new behaviors.

So, in that case and because you already had a boundaries chat recently, I would focus on dealing with that specific issue differently than bringing it up...

For now...