Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Is there a way to make sure that she never cheats on you?

No, there isn't!

You can make sure though that the probabilities for her taking that step are very slim.

How do you do that?
  • You make sure that she gets her needs met in your relationship.
  • You are at your best and attractive!
  • You have an open line of dialogue through which you communicate effectively.
  • You keep your sex life exciting.
  • She gets the attention she needs from you.
  • You take time to be romantic, passionate and nurture your love life.
  • You make plans for the future.
  • You keep on evolving.
  • You stay in good shape and take good care of yourself, your social life and career.
  • Etc.

The key word here is "Attraction"!

The more she is attracted to you, the less she will want to meet someone else.

You stay attractive by expressing your power and confidence.

You keep your life interesting and moving forward!

The goal is not to lock her in! She does not want that anyway, right?

The goal is to create for yourself a life base she stays attracted to!

Big difference!

Now, here is what does not work or sends her away:

  • Trying to control her activities and being over jealous and possessive. I am sure you guessed that one already! :)
  • Asking her for endless emotional support.
  • Expressing your insecurities to her and hoping she will solve them for you.
  • Getting stacked in your life and stopping taking risks.
  • Being enslaved by an addiction or self destructive behavior.
  • Focusing your life too much on comfort and not enough on excitement.
  • Failing to keep your sex life exciting!
  • Etc!

There is much more of course.

Basically, if the relationship is good with you, she has no reason to go and look somewhere else.

Now a big mistake guys do is believing that security is the most important factor.

You know... House, money, etc.

It's not! It counts only for 1/3 in the relationship's equation.

Thrill, excitement and fresh perspectives take as much space in her mind.

A fulfilling sex life is as well essential of course.

Guys often loose their girlfriend or wife because they are too soft or too kind.

If you want her to feel like a woman, you need to behave like a male!

Don't get mistaken! When she says that she wants you to share your feelings more, she is simply trying to establish a new refreshing communication line with you.

These kind of statements are actually very misleading and confusing for guys! If you do what she says and turn your relationship into an ongoing therapy circle, there are good chances that she will in fact be turned off!

One of these key couple mysteries we'll solve in another post!

For now remember that if you want her to feel feminine, you need to express your malehood!

Power and self confidence are the two key qualities you can focus on.

Uncontrolled jealousy outbursts are definitely not the type of power we are thinking of!

Uncontrolled jealousy is an expression of insecurity and emotional abuse!

It does not glorify you!

If actually makes you look weak because you become the slave of an emotion you don't control.

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To your power!

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