Friday, May 11, 2007

I don't like the idea of her massagist touching her

This is strictly professional, right?

You agree with that.

It is like visiting a doctor or having a session with a male psychologist.

Is your jealousy justified in that case?

Of course not!

There is no threat to your relationship.

She is not cheating.

The first step is to realize that the jealousy reaction you feel is totally useless in that case.

Yes! It is the sign of lack of emotional maturity.

Can you change that response?

Of course you can.

You need to shift from jealousy to trust.

How do you do that?

You consciously reprogram yourself when you feel a negative jealousy feeling waking up. You simply remind yourself that:
  • It is strictly professional.
  • She needs that to relax!
  • It is with me that she is!
  • We have a great relationship and sex life.
  • Yes! I can trust her.
  • She shows me that she loves me in so many ways.
  • I decide to trust her!
  • It is childish and immature to feel jealousy in that situation

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http://vitalcoaching.com/malejealousy.htm

and check the chapter on how to retrain an unwanted jealousy response

To your power!

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